Can mortal enemies ever become friends? Can implacable foes with a long history of warfare -- both overt and covert -- by some miraculous change of heart become bosom buddies? Can mutual mistrust and paranoia turn into jigri dosti and the exchange of high fives?
These are the challenging questions that the TOI has raised in its innovative, path- breaking, pioneering campaign, Aman Ki Asha. Innovative, path-breaking, pioneering? Aren't they more or less the same thing? Isn't the use of all three needless repetition? Repetition, yes. Needless, no. For some things need to be repeated. For how else, but through constant repetition, can a history of hatred be turned into a destiny of love? How else can the hawks of war be turned into the white doves of peace, guns turned into roses? How else can the rhetoric of revenge be transformed into the purple prose of poetic harmony?
A formidable challenge indeed. How to turn sworn adversaries into allies, thereby ushering in a new era of peace and prosperity for all. The problem was made all the more difficult in that the two opposing entities were of unequal size, resource base and histories. One of the entities was larger, had access to greater resources, and could boast an historical narrative much longer than that of its Johnny-come-lately antagonist.
This asymmetry -- real or perceived -- of power, pelf and influence, made an already complex situation even more complicated. Each time the larger of the two entities would try to reach out a hand of friendship it would be seen by the other, smaller entity as, at worst, a threatening gesture -- Come near me and i'll give you such a slap! -- or, at best, as a token of patronising condescension -- Come here and have your head patted, like the good little fella you are, all your naughty shenanigans notwithstanding. The olive branch of peace -- repeatedly held out by the larger, more mature entity -- was repeatedly misconstrued as the danda of attack or intimidation by the smaller guy.
That's why the TOI launched its campaign. To clear up all these misapprehensions which have entrenched the battle lines and further vitiated the climate of hostility between the two. And which are the two horn-locking, eyeball-to-eyeball entities that Aman Ki Asha is addressing? India and Pakistan? Well, yes. Sort of. But the real, coded message of Aman Ki Asha is meant for adversarial entities more difficult of reconciliation than India and Pakistan. India and Pakistan? Yeah, sure, they've had their spats, starting with a really nasty one called Partition. But one of these decades, they'll finally kiss and make up.
So who are the bitterest of enemies -- with one of them being far more bitter than the other -- that Aman Ki Asha is all about? Coke and Pepsi? Mukesh and Anil? They're practically Facebook pals compared with two warring camps which would make Kurukshetra look like a Rotary Club meeting. That's right: Aman Ki Asha is about the TOI and its arch rival, the HT.
Being the bigger of the two, and far older, TOI has repeatedly waved the white flag of truce vis-a-vis HT. Hey, let's quit scrapping, guys. The name of the game is no longer competition but co-opetition, where both can share an ever-increasing market of readership and ads. But do you think HT would buy this line? Nope. HT was -- and is -- convinced that these are all Trojan horses, ploys to put HT off-guard and open to flank attack.
Being smaller, and less mature, than the 170-odd-year-old TOI, HT is uncomfortably conscious of following in TOI's footsteps, doing today what TOI had already discarded yonks ago. This is what has given HT not just a chip but a whole packet of Lay's Masala Flavour on its shoulder. That's the real reason behind Aman Ki Asha. To broker peace with HT, amen. That's the real Amen ki asha.
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Sort by: Oldest | Newest | Recommended (25) | Most Discussed | Author´s Responses (1)January 15,2010 at 03:21 AM IST
i think we are making a mistake. pakistan is a back stabber and it will do the same with us what it did on 26/11 so please for the sake of peace of india i think its a wrong step . government is right with its policies.
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January 17,2010 at 11:32 AM IST
They can never be our friends. Treachery is in their blood.We should always be looking them as a threat to our nation, our people
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January 15,2010 at 07:24 AM IST
Phew what an anticlimax to the blog......
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January 15,2010 at 09:13 AM IST
India needs to be realistic and comletely seal its borders (Like Israel has done) with Pakisthan. No man should be allowed to cross the border..the risk of Jihadis setting off a dirty nuke killing of millions in Delhi or Mumbai is too great (all the Aman Ki Asha folks will be gone too). Its best to develop frindships with moderate Pakis over the Internet..but seal the borders completly. Remember the Jihadis would love nothing better than dirty nuking a whole Indian city for the simple reason that Hinduism's truth about religious pluralism is directly oppposite to what they have been taught in a madrasa.
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January 15,2010 at 12:22 PM IST
Dear Jug Suraiya,
This is mere wishful thinking on your part. I am a regular reader of your columns, and highly appreciate them. But, I wonder if you have written this under the influence of someone or of some organisation.
I am sorry, I am completely pessimist on this subject. Until the Indian gouvernment has the courage to punish those providing aid to the terrorist within our country as the terrorists themselves, nothing is going to change.
A. GHOSE
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January 18,2010 at 02:10 PM IST
Dear Asamanja Ghosh
You seem to have missed the point about this blog. In fact it is a satirical take on TOI’s Aman Ki Asha campaign. My blog suggest that the two real enemies are not India and Pakistan but HT and TOI.
In short the blog is a spoof on the Aman Ki Asha campaign.
Jug
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January 15,2010 at 12:58 PM IST
Rest assured, this aman initiative will also result in a stab in the back...just like Kargil was a stab in the back after Vajpayee's Lahore bus journey.
This is accentuated more by the name of the Pakistani group, TOI has parterned with --- JANG (Which means war).
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January 15,2010 at 03:28 PM IST
Amen ki Asha is a good gesture but we the Indian should not forget the Kargil adventure, Parliament attack and the 26/11 (the Mumbai carnage).At Kargil India exhibited its bravery but at Parliament and Mumbai the responses are tepid and timid.We should extend our hands of friendship to the general citizen of Pakistan but stand tough and vigilant to the parpetrator of crime from across the border.
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January 15,2010 at 04:37 PM IST
It is a nice and bold initiative by ToI, but as if it is a bad omen, the messengers of peace, the pigeons in the Aman Ki Asha icon also cannot see each other in the eye. Both are facing away from each other.
As Sawarkar had said to Gandhi, non-violence is effective only against humans not cannibals. Unfortunately, for Pakistan, only cannibals are taking decisions in form of leaders for them.
Amen!
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January 15,2010 at 06:27 PM IST
oh!its high for us to understand that pakistan is a back stabber.Similar to previous attempts this would proove a failure.This has been much proved by the latest terrorist attacks in J&K valley.The government should stick to its strict foreign policy towards Pakistan.Furthermore why such peace propagating steps first initiated by our neighbour?ALTOGETHER AMAN KI ASHA IS A NICE ATTEMPT BUT IN VAIN
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January 15,2010 at 08:48 PM IST
dicursive article and far fetched when it comes to analogy of aman ki asha with comparison b/w toi n ht.
also difficult to believe that ht could b a close competitor to toi , since daily i come across grammatical solicicms and typo errors in ht.
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January 15,2010 at 09:13 PM IST
Jug, I admire your courage in bringing out this piece. There is so much rancor between the two nations, that anyone who tries to plead for unbiased understanding & geniality is going to be pilloried, as I can see happening in this case also. It has been my privilege to know some Pakistani families rather closely when I stayed in SEAsia, and I can only say that the bitterness between India & Pakistan is a tragedy for both. What is happening currently is that historical legacies, vigorous politicking by selfish politicians, fanatical approaches by people belonging to one religion or the other, and recently, the rise of Al Qaeda have totally befuddled even the better of us. But then it is for this precise reason that persistently, some sane & cool voices like the TOI’s and yours need to be raised & heard. It is necessary to have the courage to recognize that history can shape differently than the past, and in case of India and Pakistan, it is very material that this happens. Enmity, hatred, and alienation have done unspeakable harm to both of them. A slow, definite and continuous deviation from these promises much mutual benefit. Overcoming aversion is not easy, but it has immense rewards.
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January 16,2010 at 04:01 PM IST
Dear Mr. Singru, What you said does make sense, but could someone be more specific
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January 16,2010 at 01:00 AM IST
well!! we learn from our mistakes.i feel we are learning to make further mistakes.pakistan ke saath aman tak theek hai.let peace prevail and pull up our bootstraps all the time.expecting harmony has never been on the cards.yes, we shall try for peace. as the campaign title suddest.shaking hands would be of no use.threats must be kept at a distance and then there is peace.not a single speech out of their leaders have sounded friendly in any case or situation.its gud that we put efforts in development of our nation and keep an eye on the vulnerable borders.morally AKA is great campaign but i'm afraid it cant be effective.or maybe even forgotten as time passes by.
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January 16,2010 at 01:41 AM IST
hahahahaha What an ending to the blog! Jug, u rock! By the way, have the readers lost all sense of humour? I wonder what HT has to say to this one.
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January 16,2010 at 09:38 AM IST
This is an exercise in comlete vain...
The theocratic radical dictionary that Pakistanis use, does not have 'aman' as an entry.
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January 16,2010 at 11:50 AM IST
An initiative in bridging the historical gap between India and Pakistan is indeed commendable. However, caution and alertness are the first words that come to mind when Pakistan and India try to move forward together.
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January 16,2010 at 07:42 PM IST
It is in the interest of both countries, India and Pakistan to have good relations with each other. Political science dictates that in order to succeed u need a stable neighbourhood. A little concession here and there by both countries will bring generous rewards to the whole of South Asia. Our relations can improve once we start to become interdependent, this could be achieved through trade and people to people contact.
People to people contact, is a very effective way to understand the positive sides of each other and to allay misconceptions, it will also help each other in understanding that there is more to gain than to lose. There may come a time when people to people contact start to change into deep love for each other’s countries. This is absolutely important, because if the two countries ever prepare for war both country’s public could come out to demonstrate that they don’t want war, and hence putting pressure on the contemporary governments to back down.
India is growing economically quite well, and is a nuclear power, no one can do serious damage to India without receiving serious damage to itself. However, when considering, how fast China is growing, (and all set to become a regional power) it is more so in the interest of India to have good relation with Pakistan than the other way round.
China has not enjoyed good relations with some of its own neighbours, but today it is trying to improve relations with nearly all.
India/Pakistan rivalry or India/China rivalry is nothing compared to the bitter rivalry of China/Japan , which has been going on since the Japanese occupation of China (pre 1949).
Today even, China is trying to resolve differences with its most bitter rival Japan, why? because it makes business sense and faster progress. If China and Japan can, why can’t we, i.e. India/Pakistan.
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January 16,2010 at 09:19 PM IST
Dear Mr. Suraiya,
Pakistan is dead horse, no sense of biting dead horse. If India and USA can join with drone
attack both can wipe out all the terrorist camps
and Al-Qieda's dispersed friends through out
Pakistan and POK, Both millitaries can claim
victory and can kill two birds with one stone.
Do not give that technology to Pakistani Army,
I am sure of using against India.
BJP was about to do that they wanted to destroy
those camps with precise air strikes. Engaging
armies on the both side will be very dangerous
and it would create long bleeding situation
at best for internal and external terrorists
groups that will be uncontrollable situation.
We have to swallow what happened during partition.
A broken pot is always broken, It is unfortunate
that happened, what is the practical solution,
All the wars were fought to be the last one
before humanity and sadly it is fact, The great
Ashok was right but world has produced on the ONE,
and probably last. Pakistani must be taught
a lesson and kept at bay for further attacks like
26/11 is nearly impossible the way our political
system works .
GOD bless India and her armed forces.
JAI HIND,
Thank you and sincerely,
Rajendra M. Parikh
Arlington, Texas USA
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January 16,2010 at 11:09 PM IST
As per Pakistan only way to achieve peace(?) in the region is for India to concede Kashmir to Pakistan.(it is a different question whether the peace prevails ever between the two even if India really givesup Kashmir, because the issue is really not about the Land but about the ideology in the form of religion. It is in reality fundamentalism v/s psuedo-secularim). This is what you want Mr. Jug ???? Or you are so optimistic that Pak will give up the demand for Kashmir and come around their corrupt military and politicians to accept peace with India which is ruled by equally corrupt politicians ??? In either case you and the like minded are unrealistically optimistic...!!!! AT THE BEST what can happen out of this is one day you and your likes will get kicked very badly by the ultra-fundamentalists from across the border. Well.. AT THE WORST...I don't need to tell that...
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January 16,2010 at 11:11 PM IST
Its been from a lond time that a step towards resolution of the dead lock between our relations with Pakistan has been done frm our side only but everything turned to be a big mistake. Pakistan in no way is intrested in any solution as they are now addicted to the situation .India shud leave the issue and look into the matters requiring urgent action like inflation , unemployment , attainment of self reliance in every sector. If this is done everything will be sorted out , its just we hav to emerge as a determing power(choosen one )
with regards
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January 17,2010 at 10:54 AM IST
JUG
Ur hopes are very laudable. But think practically, will it happen??? No chance as long as our neighbour fails to abjure the failed policy of terrorism and eliminates all terror groups and their havens on its soil. Will that happen??? No, way.
Then why the fuss again??? Did we try out this grandiose project earlier and what happened?? it collapsed……. There should be mindset change across the borders. Some of their people and political parties may be willing,,,but they are overruled by who else..their armed forces, ISI and the terror groups as well as some political parties.
Pakistan is bred on a cocktail of hatred for INDIA and its India-centric philosophy is driving it a maddening desire to destroy it. HATRED is the core of their philosophy taught in their educational books and fine tuned by their terror groups
And did Pakistan take any action against 26/11 attackers till date…….the mastermind Saeed is still walking free. Oceans of proofs have been given, has anything come out of it???? They ask for more proof….what kind of sickening joke is this??
Simple, not much will come out of this latest initiative…. Remember LeT will scuttle it again….
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January 19,2010 at 08:36 PM IST
so good to know that people have their own opinion on foreign policy than the one "forced upon us" by the newspaper.
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January 27,2010 at 02:18 PM IST
Surprising comments - perhaps readers are not going through your whole post Jug, and without realizing what this fuss is all about, they are posing about the so called 'Aman Ki Aasha' peace project. So you are unable to hold your readership, isn't it?
And yes, about the TOI and HT war, obviously TOI has more money to spend, can post more vulgar pictures, can say about every news 'we reported this first', and can make collaboration with 'Jung' to have peace. That's funny for me. But of course, you are a TOI columnist and will show your loyalty be degrading other media house.
PS: You might not agree to this, but one of my friend posted this message on his messenger status: "The only Indian legal pornographic website: navbharattimes.indiatimes.com." lolz. Please go through the picture section called 'Sampadak Ki Pasand' - it's hilarious to know the editor's choice is semi-pornographic pictures of nude models. SO, that is what you will serve to your readers, to increase readership. Correct sir?
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February 02,2010 at 04:26 AM IST
Jug Suraiya obviously knows which side of his bread is buttered. There can be no peace between India and that wretched country of Pakistan until (1) The army is tamed and (2) Pakistan renouces its Islamic ideology. Pigs will fly before either happens. The only realistic hope is that Pakistan breaks up because of its internal contradictions.
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